Tuesday, May 26, 2015

5 Things to do to Meet Mr. Right

Many of the people I work with just SO do not like dating online and I can see why. In almost every session where I've looked at that, I've seen it as a catalogue that people flip through. Some are worse than others. When one girl asked about guy after guy after guy she'd met on an online dating site, I had to pause and ask her just what it was, because it seemed like they were only there for hook-ups. It was Tinder.

I met my husband many a year ago at 24 Hour Fitness. I got up and went there every day at 6am, because I had an office job where I sat around all day. I noticed that he arrived there every day at 6am, and I thought he was super cute. I began to look for him but I pretended not to see him. And I developed a huge crush on him. I remember I'd get to work in the morning and write emails to my best friends about seeing him and how cute he was. Luckily for me, he was doing the same thing (not emailing friends, but noticing me), and finally, finally, finally! we talked. And the rest is history.

I developed a whole audio workshop with tips, meditations, and writing exercises to help you meet someone - it's called Magnetize Your Soul Mate - so if you are interested in more in-depth energy work, definitely check it out! In the mean time, here are 5 things you can do to Meet Mr. Right:

1. Get JAZZED 
The more naturally happy and excited you are about life, the more attractive you are to other people. You sparkle and shine like a bright light, and people love light. So listen to some music you love, raise your vibes, and start noticing the life around you!

A lot of women don't see the guys around them, or don't notice an opportunity to smile at someone, or give a guy a chance to talk to them. If you seem in any way to be cold, haughty, aloof, or in "don't look at me!" mode, nobody is going to talk to you. But if you pay attention, and you're in an open, receptive, happy mode, you will notice more men, they will notice you, and that will make it that much easier to meet Mr. Right!

3. Look GOOD.
When you love yourself, you love your reflection in the mirror, you wear clothes that make you feel great, your skin is glowing, etc etc etc, it just naturally follows that you'll be in a better space to meet Mr. Right. So many people KNOW this, but they don't DO ANYTHING about it. Go look through your closet and tell me you can't get rid of at least a few things you wear that are not really the very most flattering.

4. Go where the BOYS GO.
Do you get up, drive to work, eat at your desk, drive home, and then repeat the next day, adding in an errand or two? If this is the way it is, how are you EVER going to meet anyone? I get that it's hard to do things during the week, but just try and be creative. Go to the gym before or after work. Maybe stop at a cafe where cute men are. Eat lunch where men go eat lunch. On the weekends, go where guys go. Sports-related anything, home depot, car shows, church, the park, etc. And when you're out, GET JAZZED, LOOK GOOD, and PAY ATTENTION!

5. Don't EVER fear that it won't happen.
Your create the situations that you focus on. So start getting into that positive mindset and KNOW that you are going to meet him and it's going to be great. There is no reason why you shouldn't meet Mr. Right. In fact, it's statistically in your FAVOR to meet and fall in love with someone. There's no shortage of men, and with how easy it is to travel and get around these days, you have the entire world at your feet. Believe that you are going to meet him. Make it fun, make it a game, and enjoy every minute of it. This is FUN! This is how manifesting works, at it's very, very best. You can do it. All it takes is good vibes and your imagination.

Good luck with this, and if you need more help, check out Magnetize Your Soul Mate!

Tuesday, May 19, 2015

What if You Don't Like the Guidance You Receive?

Lately, I've been exploring different types of divination systems and applying them to my life - meaning, doing readings for myself.

In delving deeper into the realms of the subconscious, and exploring how we humans fit into the whole pattern of the universe, I've been learning a lot. What I've noticed, as it pertains to my own inquiries, is that I have resistance when I get an answer I don't want to hear.

I've noticed that with clients, too. It's REALLY GREAT when a reading confirms what you already know, but it's really hard when an answer comes up that isn't what you wanted. It stinks, really. It stinks for me to tell someone something that makes them sad, or angry, or gets them all riled up, and it stinks for them to hear it. HOWEVER, there is a way around this.

When you're receiving guidance, be it through your own intuition, or in a session with someone else, pay attention to what you hear. If something strikes a chord and you don't like it, this is your opportunity to ask WHY.

1. Ask WHY you're getting this guidance. Is there a deeper meaning? Some part of the big picture you need to understand? Answers to these types of questions are worth their weight in gold!

2. Ask WHAT YOU CAN DO to change a potential outcome.

3. If  you were expecting a certain answer, and the guidance was that that is not the way, ask for guidance as to what the way is, how to get on your true path. Ask what will make you feel happy and fulfilled.

Recently I did a session with someone who told me that a woman had told her, years ago, that men would come and go and yet she'd never settle down with anyone. It really hurt her, obviously! In our session, it came up that yes, she has some blocks (who doesn't), but NO, she does not need to be alone for the rest of her life. She can and most likely WILL meet a wonderful partner if she chose to break the pattern. 

One of the things I learned from my spiritual teachers is to always ask "For this OR BETTER." Because really, wouldn't the Universe, or God, know more about what's best for us than we do? Maybe we're hell bent on getting a certain job or moving to a certain place because we THINK that's the only way, but perhaps there's a better way that will lead us down a whole other path.

Those are the questions to ask when you don't like the guidance you receive.

I hope this helps!

Tuesday, May 12, 2015

Dos and Don'ts of Getting a Reading/Energy Healing

Recently, a colleague and I exchanged notes on the sessions we do, and how some people are wonderful and easy to work with, while others are so difficult and negative that we just want to hang up the phone and be done with it. If you are at all considering getting a reading for yourself, you need to understand 100% that you are just as responsible for the outcome of your session as the person who is reading you or working with your energy. That said, here are some major dos and don'ts to follow before you book a session with anyone in the healing arts.

DON'T be Down, Dark, and in the Dumps.

If you want the best healing session possible, DO NOT arrive in emergency-drama-panic-fear mode. For starters, it is energetically irresponsible and just plain rude for you to come to your session dark, down, and negative, expecting the reader/healer to zap through your cloud of turmoil, turn you around, make you happy, give you all the answers, and make it all better in 60 minutes or less.

Yes, you may be in pain, but a reading is not a place to dump your shit like some kind of Exxon oil spill. It will only give you temporary relief, anyway. Breathe, calm yourself down, and get into a more decent space before a session. Ask your questions from an empowered place, knowing that YOU are in charge of your destiny and your life. As you do this, your energy will naturally become more centered and balanced. And this is what you need in order to direct your life from a higher vibration of love and light.

DO say a prayer and set an intention for yourself before your session.

It can be as formal or informal as you'd like it to be, but it will be extremely helpful for you to acknowledge Higher Power and pray/request that you receive the highest level of positive information and healing during your session. Ask that you and the reader/healer are both guided in the light, and that you hear what you need to hear so that you can be in alignment with God and the universe in order to be happy, to thrive, to be of service, and to grow your soul.

DON'T expect a reader or energy healer to magically FIX you.

You need to do the work in your life. A reading or healing session will help shift your energy and give you insight into what you need to do next in order to repair your life or get back on track, but it will not do the work for you. Don't blame your practitioner if things aren't going the way you want them to. Do some soul-searching and accept responsibility for your own energy, your own karma, and your own choices.

DO BE OPEN to what comes through.

One of the hardest things for readers is telling people what the NEED TO KNOW, which is not always what they WANT TO HEAR. In fact, this is personally one of my biggest struggles because I hate to piss people off. Once, a woman asked me why a certain man didn't like her. It turns out he would rather be with someone homely and COOL that someone really pretty and BITCHY. Sadly, she fell into the latter category. She didn't want to hear that, but it was the truth. She had asked me to tell the truth, and I did. She also got angry with me when I said her wedding date might not be until a few years down the line. She specifically asked me to look into the future and get that information for her, and when I did, she didn't like it. Talk about dark, angry, and negative! In any event, that brings me to the next DO, which is...

DO ask how you can change (or best direct) your future. 

If you don't like an answer you get, don't be angry. Ask how you can change it. God gave you free will, which means that even if a reader sees that things might turn out a certain way, you can totally change it. Nobody can predict the future with 100% accuracy, because we all have free will.

DON'T expect to IMMEDIATELY understand everything the person says during a session.

Be open, let the information sink in, and mull things over. I recently had two separate sessions with two different readers. The first one mentioned something to me which was interesting but didn't really make sense to me at the time. When the second one uttered the EXACT SAME WORDS in the same sentence, I gasped. This was something I needed to really pay attention to!!! And I listened. It is still making more sense to me as the weeks pass by, and I'm mostly just marveling at the incredibly magical way in which things can unfold when you're open, willing to receive guidance, tuned in and paying attention.

DO ask how you can heal yourself, connect with God, and receive your own guidance.

Since the dawn of mankind, people have become used to giving their power away. That cycle is now ending. We are entering into an era now where we are gaining more truth and knowledge about God, creation, energy, and how the universe works. This means every single person alive has permission to talk to God, to be psychic, to be authentically powerful, to heal themselves and heal others. We are on equal playing ground here. Information is EVERYWHERE, literally at our very fingertips. So why not ask your practitioner how you can get more aligned with your own inner guidance? A true healer will be THRILLED that you're asking empowering questions like this, as this is the direction we are all being called to follow.

It's really important that you stay focused, calm, centered and grounded during a session. Know that only YOU can truly heal your life. A reader or energy healer can offer you sound guidance and help to re-align your energies so that you remember how powerful you really are. But you have to do the work. You have to stop making the same mistakes. You have to be responsible for how you think, how you run your own energy, what you eat, what you do, and what you say. Remember that you chose to experience everything you are now experiencing, and there is a reason for all of it.

Tuesday, May 5, 2015

Free Up Your Time and Energy with this Two-Word Mantra.

Time suckers, attention stealers, and energy vampires are everywhere these days. It can be hard to keep your energy fresh and clean and vibrant when you're surrounded by distractions like spam emails, in-your-face billboards, unsolicited phone calls, irritating people, etc. etc. etc.

If you live in a place like I do, this is pretty much on the uber high-end, so I've had to learn how to tune things out. Yet I still have a hard time, especially on trash days, when no less than 10 dump trucks careen up and down my street, rattling windows and setting off car alarms and causing major traffic jams in which cars honk and people not only shout obscenities, but literally scream with rage. For reals. When I'm feeling extra spiritual I am very, very grateful that we have services to remove our trash. But I am human and I do have hormones, and on some days that is not so easy.

Dump trucks aside, today when I opened my email and read yet another message from someone whose newsletter I subscribed to, but am seriously annoyed by because I get a total creepy vibe from him, a nice little two-word mantra popped into my head:


I have ZERO TOLERANCE for this creepy man and his creepy emails, and I unsubscribed from the list ASAP instead of just deleting the message whatever whatever because maybe one day there will be a good email and he is considered a leader in his field after all.

It's OK to have ZERO TOLERANCE. In fact, it can be good for you. It can foster peace of mind and help you to be strong and to stay true to yourself.

Why tolerate yucky stuff in your life that makes you feel bad?

At work, you can have ZERO TOLERANCE for Negative Nelly and Bossy Brian. Tune them out, turn them off, avoid, avoid, avoid. If your workplace is teeming with people who annoy you, have ZERO TOLERANCE for that and get a new job! Toxic workplaces will kill you, no joke.

At home, you can have ZERO TOLERANCE for back talk from your kids, for example. At age 3, Ivan is learning how to be sassy and say naughty things. No, we do not call our parents Poopy Butts. That is rude and unacceptable. Time out! ZERO TOLERANCE.

In your life in general, you are allowed to have ZERO TOLERANCE for things that frustrate you.

It's OK!

Stop letting things slide. If you're tired of the way things look in your house, or of accepting a certain situation even though you know in your heart and soul it's wrong for you and not serving your highest possible good, it's GOOD FOR YOU to have ZERO TOLERANCE!

Listen to your intuition, and pay attention to the things that annoy you or cause your vibration to sink to a level you're not comfortable with. Keep your energy clean and clear and high, and create good things for yourself. Adopting a ZERO TOLERANCE policy will help!

Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Activate Your Psychic Super Powers!

To be honest with you, lately I've been getting tired of the whole psychic thing.

Are you shocked! That is so bad of me to say! So taboo!

Gypsy Fortune Tellers, Sylvia Browne, and Madame Cleo

But really. I never thought of myself as psychic (until I started training and learning how to do it), and I sure never planned on being A PSYCHIC like Sylvia Browne (who was wonderful) or Madame Cleo (hello, TV ads from decades past)! That's why I call myself an intuitive consultant. It sounds more like what I am - a helper, a guide, a teacher -  and a lot less like I'm sitting in a gypsy wagon with a scarf over my head, waving my hands over a crystal ball and talking about curses and whatnot.

Everyone gets tired of things once in a while, and I think the reason I'm tired of the whole psychic thing is that many people (not YOU, dear reader, but other people) continue to go to psychics because they are totally lost and scared and sad, and they think the psychic person can give them all the answers and they don't have to do any work.

This might sound like a rant or tirade, but I promise you it's not. It's not!

We ALL Have the Potential to be Psychic.

The thing about being psychic is that we ALL have the potential to tap into our intuition and learn how to do this.

The reason I got to be psychic is I read a lot of books, I trained personally with a world class teacher, I meditated like there was no tomorrow, and I practiced nonstop for two whole years. I was dedicated to doing this.

The  more you practice, the better you get. It's just that simple.

Now that I've done readings for thousands of people, I've realized that the most important thing I can possibly teach anyone is that they have the power to get the answers for themselves.

Do You Want to be Psychic?

One of the easiest ways you can start is with the Activate Your Psychic Super Powers program. It's based on my teacher Debra Lynne Katz's amazing book, the one that started me on this journey. We created it so that you'll get a lesson emailed to you once a week for 8 weeks, along with a guided meditation, to help you along the way.

It couldn't be more simple. For only $55 - that's less than the cost of a reading - you'll be on your way to doing readings for yourself and others if you want.

Don't give your power away or go to other people for the answers. Learn how to do it yourself, and whole new worlds of opportunities will come your way.

Click here for more info: http://www.activateyourpsychicsuperpowers.com/.

You can learn how to tap into your own intuition and still get sessions from others - in fact, once you have a working sense of your own psychic abilities, sessions you receive are even more positive and powerful.

That's because as you learn to work with your own visual imagery, you get a deeper sense of what the other person is picking up on, and a more powerful understanding of what you need, and can do, to change your future. And what is more empowering than that!?!