Tuesday, April 22, 2014

How to Stop Attracting Bad Dates

Have you ever felt like the only potential romantic partners you're attracting are the WRONG ones?

If so, you're not alone. I see tons of people who just keep on meeting the type of person they don't want to be involved with. The story goes something like this:

You've had a break up. He (or she) betrayed you, or treated you terribly. Or, you thought it was going somewhere, and then all of a sudden it wasn't. Your heart is broken, and you didn't want to have this life experience. It sucked.

But, time has gone by, and now you're ready for a new start. A new person enters into your life. Everything seems great, and then you find out they're a player, or emotionally unavailable, or married, or not ideal in some way or another. So it ends, and after a while you meet someone else. And the same story unfolds.

And again.

And again.

Why does this keep happening?

I'll tell you why. You are magnetically attracting a certain type of person into your life, a person that will enable you to live the same experience all over again. Maybe it won't be an exact clone of that experience, but the way you feel will be the same. Sad. Alone. Devastated. Single.

Everything is made of energy. We all know that, right? And what you think about, and expect, is what you attract. Now, you don't LOGICALLY want to attract a bad date, but, chances are, because you had a very painful experience, you have a lot of emotional energy and fear around the possibility that you will have to go through that pain again. That emotional energy is so powerful that it settles down into your subconscious mind, which begins to accept this as the truth, and makes certain that you repeat this experience again and again, so that you feel the same way.

Obviously, everyone is different. Some people have deep-seated issues around romantic relationships based on modeling they received from their parents and family members growing up. Others have problems with self-love. Some had traumatic romantic experiences that they believe just "ruined" them for life. And, of course, these are just a few examples - there are hundreds of reasons why people magnetically attract unpleasant experiences into their lives.

Whatever the case is for you, you can stop attracting bad dates. You don't have to carry on with a negative cycle if you don't like it. Here are three steps to try that will help:

1. Find out what signal you're sending out to prospective romantic partners:

What does your vibe say about you? Are you confident, happy, and vibrant? Or are you timid, frightened, and sad? Regardless of how you feel while you're on a date, your emotional databanks (an energetic history of how you feel about yourself and your life) set up a vibration that emits a strong signal to others, who sense it and react to you accordingly. What signal are you sending out? Is it one that says "Take advantage of me, I'm wounded!" or "I love myself, I love my life, and you'd be lucky to be with me!"? If you're not sure, ask friends and family for feedback. Another way to tell is to check yourself out in a window or mirror when you're out. Do you like your reflection? What does it say about you? If you could change it, what would you change?

2. Re-program your subconscious mind.

Your subconscious mind makes sure that your life experiences match the beliefs you have about yourself. If you believe you're not worthy of unconditional love, guess what? You won't receive it. If you're with someone who wants to give it, you'll find a way to sabotage it. If you'd like to read more about re-programming your subconscious mind, I recommend Joseph Murphy's book, The Power of Your Subconscious Mind. 

3. Lavish yourself with love.

You tell the world what to think of you. You can walk around declaring "I'm a loser!" and the world will echo back, "Yes, you're a loser!" Conversely, you can walk around declaring "I'm a winner!" and the world will echo back, "Yes, you're a winner!" You're the ONLY ONE who can change the image you're projecting out to the world, and in this, you have all of the power. So practice lavishing yourself with love, and see what happens.

Have you ever felt like you've been attracting the wrong type of person or experience into your life? If so, how did you stop the cycle?

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Is There Really Life After Death?

I had a conversation with my husband a while back where he wondered if, when you die, you're just, you know - dead. Gone forever. Finshed. Finito.

The idea was new to me. I'm someone who has believed in reincarnation since before I was born. I'm an old soul, I've done countless past life readings, had past life regressions and readings done on myself, studied all kinds of books, heard all kinds of stories, and, to top it all off, am a believer in out-there concepts. I also feel that in order to be truly open-minded, you can't discount anything. So I started thinking about it.

If there isn't life after death, that means that this ONE lifetime is all we've got. So,we're born. Our little bodies emerge, along with our personalities, and the spirit animates the body. We grow up, live, and then die. The body dies, and presuming there is no life after death, the spirit dies, too. Poof! All gone, all at once. No more.

But see, that doesn't make sense to me. The spirit of a person is more alive, more vibrant, than the physical body. The spirit gives LIFE to the body. Would the spirit just die, then, right after the body does? What's the point of that?

I suppose there's no clinical proof of it yet, but to me, that equation doesn't seem right.

Why would the spirit die? What would the point be? And does death really exist? Everything in the natural world is reborn - just look at the cycle of nature. In the winter, everything shrivels up and goes dormant. In the spring, new leaves form. Bounty in the summer, then everything withers up in autumn, goes dormant again in the winter, and then new growth and rebirth again.

I recently finished a really great novel called "Life After Life" by Kate Atkinson. It follows the story of a main character, Ursula, through World War 1 and 2 in Great Britain. At various points throughout the story, she dies, and then returns right back to the same birth, the same circumstances, and the same life to live again. She does things differently each time, ostensibly til she "gets it right." The idea is quite fascinating, and it opens up the question as to whether or not we keep living the same life over and over until we learn certain lessons and/or change things. I've never seen that occur in a past life reading, but that's not to say it's not possible, right?

Physicists say that the reality as we know it isn't quite that. Apparently, nothing is made of matter, and there is no such thing as time. Say what? But think about it. We exist in one particular dimension. We don't know for sure about other dimensions. We don't know a whole lot about a lot of things. What we perceive to be our world could merely be a fraction of a tenth of a thousandth of a whole myriad of big huge dimensions that our little brains can't even begin to fathom.

Or, we could all be the puppets of a man in the sky who decides our fate at whim.

I had a past life regression once where the hypnotherapist led me to connect with the spirit of my mother, who died when I was 15. I can't really express the way this worked, but it was quite beautiful and profound. It was her, but not her. She said that she was something, as a part of everything, the great spirit. She wasn't "HER" anymore, but her spirit was enjoying returning to the greater spirit, where everything seemed to move and flow quite beautifully. I had the greatest sense that everything would be wonderfully fine, and that there was more meaning to what we think of as existence than I could comprehend.

And, of course, I've seen so many synchronicities when it comes to evidence of past lives, of children who remember past lives, and from the many past life readings I've done. People remember things. People are drawn to parts of the world where they've lived before. People are magnetized towards friends and loved ones with a strong feeling that they KNOW each other, have known each other for ages and ages. There is a reason for these things, and they all hint at the concept that there is life after death, and that we do reincarnate.

If you'd like to find out more about life after death and reincarnation, check out Ian Stevenson, and namely his book "Children Who Remember Past Lives." It is incredibly fascinating. I also love Dr. Brian Weiss's classic, "Many Lives, Many Masters."

Carol Bowman is a prominent past lives specialist, and you can also find information on life after death at the PLR institute.

And if you're interested in a past life reading, send me an email to set up an appointment!

What do you think about life after death? Do you believe in reincarnation?

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Does Your Astroligical Sign Determine Who You Are?

Shocking news! After a friend told me about the differences between Vedic and Western astrology, I went home and looked up my birthdate. And guess what I discovered?
I’m not a Pisces after all. In fact, I’m an Aquarius!

My husband isn’t a Gemini. He’s a Taurus!

Our son isn’t a little Libra with a Libra moon – he’s a Virgo with a Cancer moon!

I’m still processing all of this. My whole world has shifted.

But then again, it hasn’t. According to vedic astrologysigns.com, the definition of an Aquarius sounds a lot like me! “Individualistic, assertive, independent, humanitarian, inventive, original, eccentric, opinionated, societal, unconventional, musical, rebellious, organized.” It’s really fun to read an astrological personality description and find out that you kind of act like that. I also discovered that the Vedic stone for Aquarius is amethyst, which is my favorite stone! Aquamarine is the stone for Pisces, and I’m not drawn to that at all.

This whole discovery made me think – how much are we influenced by our signs? I grew up around astrology, and I have ALWAYS identified with Pisces. I’d think about how I’m a dreamer, and remember that that’s a Pisces trait. I’d note how much I love water – again, Pisces! Intuitive Pisces – I’ve found the work that suits me.  Pisces are prone to depression – something to watch out for! And I always get irritated when my husband Ryan proclaims he’s a Gemini (though he’s on the cusp and technically a Taurus in Western Astrology) because I read somewhere that Pisces and Geminis don’t make good love matches (but in Vedic astrology, Aquarius and Taurus do – yay!).

I love astrology. I’ve seen simply AMAZING things unfold out of astrological readings I’ve had, and the science of the subject is really astounding. There is a lot of truth to astrology. I can’t explain how astrology works the way I can explain clairvoyance and psychic phenomena, because it kind of blows my mind and I don’t have a lot of firsthand experience with it yet. But I believe the concept/science of how astrology works has a lot to do with sacred geometry, alignment, and ancient archetypes. 

When I did Tarot readings about Ivan before he was born, he always came up as the Justice card, which is Libra. And I remember looking at the calendar the day before he was born and noticing that the next day was the first day of Fall, and the first day of Libra. I said “You can come now!” and he listened to me, and did. He was born on the Fall Equinox as a double Libra, and I was thrilled, because I love Libras. Oh-oh. He’s a Virgo now! But the Virgo traits don’t sound a lot like Ivan – he seems more Western astrology Libra right now. Yet, he’s only 2 – so we’ll have to see. Obviously, I want him to be a Libra. Yet, I’m still a Pisces, even though I’m also an Aquarius. I’m going to try not to overthink it. I'll always love him more than life itself no matter what.

I suppose the reason I wanted to talk about this was that it made me become more aware of the way in which preconceived notions that we have about ourselves, our lives, and the world around us might not necessarily be the truth. If you feel like something’s off, maybe there’s something to that, and you should investigate a little instead of presuming that what you see and hear is in fact reality. Perhaps you’re not the person you think you are, or the person everyone around you wants you to be. Maybe (like some people I’ve met) you’re not even from this planet. Perhaps that disabled person you spoke to the other day is an angel or an ascended master in disguise. Maybe there’s more mystery, magic, and incredible wonder to the world than your mind can even fathom.

Anywho, I found a nice chart calculator at http://www.galacticcenter.org. Check it out, and tell me what your Vedic sign is! Is it different from what your western astrology sun sign is? Do you connect with the personality traits of your Vedic sign? Please add your comments below!

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Hate Your Cellulite? Try this Energy Healing Technique.

I taught a workshop in January on how to lose weight, stay in shape, and heal your body with energy work. It was a great teleseminar, and we covered tons of techniques to employ on a regular basis that help with keeping pounds off while shaping, molding, and sculpting your body. I'm starting to employ these techniques into my fitness routine more often, and I'm noticing a difference, not only in how I look and feel, but in how motivated I am to exercise and keep myself in shape. I also teamed up with my teacher and friend Debra Lynne Katz to launch a 12-week program called the Total Body Transformation Bootcamp, which we're officially launching on Friday, April 11th.

When it comes to energy work, people talk a lot about healing physical pain and emotional wounds, but there isn't a ton of focus on the more "vanity" related side of things. It's not like energy work can ONLY heal psychological traumas and deep emotional wounds along with their physical manifestations. It can work with simple things, too. Like getting rid of cellulite. I mean, why not?

With that in mind, here's an easy technique I developed recently that I call Energetic Liposuction:

Center yourself in your third eye at the center of your forehead. You can do this exercise sitting down, lying down, walking, riding the elliptical trainer or stairmaster, or doing squats.

Imagine that your root chakra, at the base of your spine, is connected to the core of the earth by a powerful, bright, shining column of light. This is your grounding cord, and it keeps you strong and centered, anchored to the earth in your physical body.

Next, visualize powerful beams of light plugging into your body's "cellulite problem zones." Plant these beams of light deep into the earth. Don't worry about creating too many. Go with what works for you.

Focus on your body, and on these beams of light, and make an intention to lovingly release the cellulite that's been glomming on to you. Direct love to all parts of your body, and acknowledge that you are a beautiful, perfect manifestation of the divine.

Let the gravity of the earth start sucking the cellulite out of your body. See large fat cells fall down the columns of light into the earth. Watch as the earth absorbs this cellulite, which is actually good for the planet, as there is an oil crisis and all. :)

Notice how happy your cellulite is to be released from you, to serve a higher purpose by giving itself to the energy of the planet. Notice how firm and toned your body is becoming as this cellulite drains away.

Again, intend that you're loving releasing fat that you no longer need.

Continue with this process for as long as you can maintain a focus. Try to be light and happy about it. It's cost-free, pain-free lipo, after all! How awesome is that?

If you can do this meditation on a regular basis, you should see results. Let me know how it goes, please!!!

And if you'd ready to make a serious change to your body, both physically and mentally, join us for the Total Body Transformation Boot Camp, launching Friday, April 11th and running once a week for 12 weeks, with weekly teleconference calls Fridays from 12pm-1pm PST. You'll also have access to a private Facebook group just for members of the program.

Join the boot camp, and we'll work with you to create a new blueprint for your physical body, which will affect your life in ways you can't even imagine - and won't occur to you until you go through the program! The techniques we'll be utilizing will help you dissolve blocks to creativity, joy, and healing: you'll find a renewed sense of motivation, and will ultimately have a better relationship with your body than ever before. For more information, click here!

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Are You Unhappy With Your Body?

Do you ever wonder why you haven't done what you know you need to do when it comes to your physical body and well-being?

Do you ever wonder what's blocking you from not only keeping you reaching your ideal weight and health but from starting in that path or maintaining it?

If so, I want to let you know about about a powerful new program my friend Debra Lynne Katz and I are launching at the end of this month. It's a total mind, body, emotional and energetic blueprint for weight loss, more creative energy, and improved self-image. Space is limited and time is short, so if you’re interested, click here to sign up today.

Lose Weight, Get in Shape, and Heal your Body – all with ENERGY WORK.

If you want to look younger and slimmer, shine bright, and feel better and get healthier, without:

Crazy diets constantly starving you…

Heavy exercise that taxes your body…

Invasive medical procedures that leave you feeling bruised and battered...

Then you won't want to miss the Total Body Transformation Boot Camp, which will help turn yourself into the person you've always wanted to be.

With powerful, productive and proven energy healing techniques, the Total Body Transformation Boot Camp will set you on the path to re-shape, mold and transform your body, mind, and spirit from the inside out.


No, we're not being shallow. It's true! If you’re not OK with your appearance, you’re likely questioning your self-worth and not acting with confidence. If you're feeling less than in any way, that's affecting your ability to be happy and to lead a life you love.

More importantly, your physical health dictates your drive, motivation and happiness. If you’re not feeling good, it diminishes your overall quality of life.


• Tired of feeling like you’re trapped in a “fat suit” that’s weighing you down?

• Depressed you’re not fitting into your clothes, feeling like every piece of clothing you own is bursting at the seams?

• Sick of chasing the latest diet fad, killing yourself with painful exercise and still not seeing results or feeling genuinely healthy?
• Annoyed by signs of aging when you look in the mirror?

• Frustrated with your physical body in any way? IF SO, LISTEN UP:

The Total Body Transformation Boot Camp will help you LOOK GREAT (revealing the attractive, youthful, sexy you), FEEL REJUVENATED, and GET HEALTHIER, all using PURE ENERGY WORK. You'll be expected to eat well and exercise when you're enrolled in the Boot Camp, but we'll leave the details up to you. In fact, as you progress through the program, your intuition and your spirit will guide you to make the very best dietary and exercise choices for your body. It's just what happens when we start working at the energetic level.

By tapping into the power of your mind, you can harness the power of high-vibrational energetic frequencies and your own innate clairvoyant abilities to shape, mold, and heal your physical body: You’ll lose weight, burn fat, build muscle, reverse signs aging and a whole lot more you probably weren't even expecting.

Transform the Way You Look & Feel while Igniting your TRUE SPIRIT.

With the Total Body Transformation Boot Camp, Debra and I will lead you through a progression of powerful energy techniques that will:

• Re-build your energetic imprint – create the canvas for a brand new you

• Crush Fat Molecules and make way for New Muscle – start shedding that fat suit

• Prime your aura to flush out nasty toxins – remove blocks to internal health and well-being

• Re-program and heal the cells of your body – repair internal damage

• Shape and mold your body – start crafting your ideal body in time for summer

• Project powerful radiance – Turn heads with confidence that exudes magnetic appeal

• Dramatically improve your creativity and enthusiasm for living

• Reverse the aging process – Pivot from old and tired to youthful and vital

• Reprogram your relationship to food, to exercise, and to life!


The program runs for 12 weeks with a weekly hour-long live session led by Debra Lynne Katz or me, Krishanti. Each week will feature a new lesson, building on the previous week, in addition to reviewing your progress from the previous week. You'll also be invited to join an uber-private Facebook group where peers can unite and support each other in this endeavor. All calls will be recorded, so if you can't make a session, don't worry - the recording will be emailed to you and is yours to keep for all eternity!

Start Date: Friday, April 11th, 12pm PST

Open to all ages, all genders, and all body types.

Location: The privacy of your own home, via teleconference - no computer necessary, just your phone!

Price: $297 for 12 weeks - that's less than $25 per session.

SPACE IS LIMITED: First come first served!

To reserve your space now, CLICK HERE!

Stop living trapped in a body you don't love. Tap into your own innate power – with the Total Body Transformation Boot Camp – and make positive, lasting changes that will bring you TRUE HAPPINESS and SATISFACTION!